Are You Ready To Be In A Relationship?
Being in a relationship right now became a big deal to the society and that most of the people are engaging or most likely stressing out on having a date in order to have a relationship in the next couple of weeks or maybe days while some have gone to social media to take it on a higher possibility on meeting someone which will they say "the one". The one person you have been waiting, praying and anticipating to come and make life even better. But are we really ready to have a serious relationship or do we just need a companion to go over a bad day? To raise our self-esteem? To tell people we are in a relationship? Or because you are just bored with your single life? Well, if you said Yes on one of those reasons then you my friend is not ready for a real relationship.
The following are signs that you are ready to be in a Relationship:
1. You are Happy with your self, your life and everything in between. We don't want you relying on someone else to become happy because that is a recipe for a disaster. Being happy is number one on our list because this is the first reason why some people engage in a relationship: To find someone that will make them happy, which is all wrong. Being happy starts from you and if you are not happy with who you are then you should start changing yourself for the better and No we don't believe in they will accept you for who you are because that will only work if you are really happy and proud of yourself. Nobody wants to be in a relationship with a gloomy and insecure person. It may sound harsh but it is the truth and as soon as you work on that, as soon that you'll make another human being happy with being with you.
2. Responsibility Ready. This means you are ready to all the arguments and compromises in the future because being in a relationship doesn't mean sunshines and rainbows all the time. There will be times that you will not understand each other. I will also tell you this: Love is not enough. Anyone who told you that Love is enough would have gone through countless heartaches and worse divorces. Because it is not all about Love but compromises and choices. Being in a relationship is not a childplay but hardwork and hardwork.
3. Financially Ready. This means you have already established a life fund where you cam support your mate and especially yourself. You don't want to become a lowlife social climber and pain in the ass by relying on your partner don't you? You have got to have shame and decency to pay for your own meal, buy your own needs and pay for your share. Your partner is a living breathing human being who work his or her ass off to earn for that money and atleast have the decency to have yours too. Have pride in yourself and work for your career first so you can be independent on your financial needs and jumpstart you when he pops the question or she demands the ring if you know what I mean.
So those are the three primary essentials to becoming ready for a relationship and while all relationships are unique, you can never go wrong with those three and I know ypu will figure out the rest. Good luck and all Love!
The following are signs that you are ready to be in a Relationship:
1. You are Happy with your self, your life and everything in between. We don't want you relying on someone else to become happy because that is a recipe for a disaster. Being happy is number one on our list because this is the first reason why some people engage in a relationship: To find someone that will make them happy, which is all wrong. Being happy starts from you and if you are not happy with who you are then you should start changing yourself for the better and No we don't believe in they will accept you for who you are because that will only work if you are really happy and proud of yourself. Nobody wants to be in a relationship with a gloomy and insecure person. It may sound harsh but it is the truth and as soon as you work on that, as soon that you'll make another human being happy with being with you.
2. Responsibility Ready. This means you are ready to all the arguments and compromises in the future because being in a relationship doesn't mean sunshines and rainbows all the time. There will be times that you will not understand each other. I will also tell you this: Love is not enough. Anyone who told you that Love is enough would have gone through countless heartaches and worse divorces. Because it is not all about Love but compromises and choices. Being in a relationship is not a childplay but hardwork and hardwork.
3. Financially Ready. This means you have already established a life fund where you cam support your mate and especially yourself. You don't want to become a lowlife social climber and pain in the ass by relying on your partner don't you? You have got to have shame and decency to pay for your own meal, buy your own needs and pay for your share. Your partner is a living breathing human being who work his or her ass off to earn for that money and atleast have the decency to have yours too. Have pride in yourself and work for your career first so you can be independent on your financial needs and jumpstart you when he pops the question or she demands the ring if you know what I mean.
So those are the three primary essentials to becoming ready for a relationship and while all relationships are unique, you can never go wrong with those three and I know ypu will figure out the rest. Good luck and all Love!
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